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Why Friendlessness is normal today?

Writer's picture: Anne AndersonAnne Anderson

Image courtesy of Adrain Balasoiu@abphoto_dot_it
Image courtesy of Adrain Balasoiu@abphoto_dot_it

UK Friendship survey 2021 and USA friendship survey 2021

  • 2021 YouGov Friendship Study:

    • 7% of Britons stated they have no close friends. 

    • This figure increased to 9% for those over 40. 

  • Other findings from the study:

    • A quarter (28%) of Britons across all ages said they had no one they would call a best friend. 

    • Over one in ten (15%) said they had no close friends. Nearly one in ten (8%) of Brits say they simply have no friends at all. 

  • Loneliness and social isolation:

    • The British Red Cross research suggests that millions of people in the UK are suffering from loneliness and social isolation. 


  • Impact of COVID-19:

    • The coronavirus pandemic has led to some Britons becoming distanced from close friends. 

    • 20% of Britons have become distanced from close friends due to the pandemic. 

    • 40% of Britons report losing contact with some of their friends since the pandemic started. 


  • Difficulty making new friends:

    • 51% of Britons find it difficult to make new friends. 

  • In a 2021 survey, 12% of Americans reported having no close friends, up from 3% in the 1990s, indicating a rise in those who feel socially isolated. 

  • Here's a more detailed breakdown:

  • Rise in "Friendless" Americans:

  • The percentage of Americans reporting having no close friends has increased significantly, rising from 3% in 1990 to 12% in 2021. 

  • Shift in Friendship Dynamics:

  • Alongside the rise in those with no close friends, there's been a decrease in Americans reporting having 10 or more close friends (from 33% in 1990 to 13% in 2021), with a corresponding increase in those stating they have between one to four close friends. 

  • Potential Contributing Factors:

  • Several factors may contribute to these trends, including later marriages, increased geographic mobility, changes in family dynamics, and longer working hours. 

  • Focus on Quality over Quantity:

  • Some argue that the shift towards smaller friend groups reflects a focus on quality over quantity in friendships, and that the pandemic may have also played a role in these changes. 

  • Importance of Close Friendships:

  • Despite these trends, a significant portion of Americans still value close friendships, with 61% of adults saying that having close friends is extremely or very important for living a fulfilling life.

Friendlessness

In a 2021 survey, 12% of Americans reported having no close friends, up from 3% in the 1990s, indicating a rise in those who feel socially isolated. 

Here's a more detailed breakdown:

  • Rise in "Friendless" Americans:The percentage of Americans reporting having no close friends has increased significantly, rising from 3% in 1990 to 12% in 2021. 

  • Shift in Friendship Dynamics:Alongside the rise in those with no close friends, there's been a decrease in Americans reporting having 10 or more close friends (from 33% in 1990 to 13% in 2021), with a corresponding increase in those stating they have between one to four close friends. 

  • Potential Contributing Factors:Several factors may contribute to these trends, including later marriages, increased geographic mobility, changes in family dynamics, and longer working hours. 

  • Focus on Quality over Quantity:Some argue that the shift towards smaller friend groups reflects a focus on quality over quantity in friendships, and that the pandemic may have also played a role in these changes. 

Importance of Close Friendships:


Despite these trends, a significant portion of Americans still value close friendships, with 61% of adults saying that having close friends is extremely or very important for living a fulfilling life.


Friendlessness is not the way forward. You cannot beat a good chat with a friend from the same level as you.


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This must be why benches are empty these days?
This must be why benches are empty these days?



 
 
 

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